Sunday, February 8, 2009

Your 2009 Stimulus Plan is Approved!

A note from peter@thewealthyattitude.com for Monday February 9 2009

Good day all and welcome to the start of Valentine's Week, and what a hoot it will be.

Undoubtedly you are going to be inundated with images and hints about what you should be doing for Valentine's Day. Here at The Wealthy Attitude we feel that this should be "your" week. A week where you appreciate yourself, honor yourself, and, may we suggest, love yourself.

To get the week started on a fine note, we go to our friend Philip Humbert as he sets forth an image of leadership in these very weird times that I believe you'll relate with. You may even see yourself within his example. Will you see yourself as a "winner"?

Your 2009 Stimulus Plan is Approved!
by Philip Humbert

I've been fascinated (and a bit disgusted) watching our "leaders" squabble over how much money they'll spend to "stimulate" us. Mary will tell you that as I watch the shenanigans that pass for "debate," I get plenty stimulated! Unfortunately, that sort of stimulation rarely leads to anything productive.

I have a better idea.

I believe the politicians are trying to do the right thing, and I wish them well. But I'm not willing to wait and I'm definitely not going to count on their generosity for my well-being! I've always believed my success is primarily up to me, in good times and in bad.

If you agree with that, let's get to work! Every crisis has winners and losers. Some people look at a crisis and become victims. They wait and wonder and hope for someone to make things betters. Others figure "if it's to be, it's up to me." They take action, find solutions and inevitably they emerge from even severe economic turmoil in a much stronger position.

In a crisis this severe, many things are beyond our individual control and we may all be battered and wounded. We may get kicked around or be knocked down, but I plan to survive and my intention is to thrive!

Here are four things I notice about the winners in life:

1. They Know Their Direction in Life. Winners are rarely lost or confused. They know their core values, they are clear about their priorities. They have found the "north star" that guides them and they keep moving forward. Not everyone takes the time to clarify their values and these people are "blown off-course" or "knocked down" when storms hit. Winners take time to ponder their values and set their priorities. They know their course in life and rarely lose their way.

2. They Have A Plan. Winners never settle for "hope" or even a "vision" of the future. They create blueprints and lists. Personally, I like the word "strategy." They know HOW they will achieve their goals. They know the steps, the resources and time it will take. Too many of us confuse "effort" with "progress." Winners never make that mistake. They have a well-designed plan and they follow it to the top.

3. They Have A Team. Winners know that successful people don't get there by themselves. Winners have coaches and partners, advisors, mentors, teachers and colleagues. At the very least, they have cheerleaders to celebrate their success and comfort them when they stumble. Winners know that bad things happen and they build alliances, networks and teams so they can triumph in tough times.

4. They Take Reasonable Risks. They take action. They invest and they follow-through. While others wonder "if it will work," winners jump in with both feet. They make decisions, they sign contracts, they take action and they "go for it." There are very few sure things in life and the winners know that sometimes you have to take a (reasonable) chance, try something new or be different to achieve more than average success.

If you want a stimulus plan in 2009, write your own! Eventually the politicians will decide what they think will work, and eventually it will get implemented, and eventually it will lift the economy and (hopefully) we'll all benefit. But no government "stimulus plan" will ever compare to using your own ideas and actions to create success RIGHT NOW!

Don't wait for "them" or for "someday!" Create and approve your own stimulus plan. Be sure it reflects your values. Take time to create a plan or blueprint, and check with your team to be sure people are with you. Then, take risks and go for it! I guarantee no government bail-out will ever be half as stimulating as creating the life you truly, always wanted!



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Friday, February 6, 2009

Notes From The Universe

Another note from peter@thewealthyattitude.com for Friday February 6 2009

Hello again everyone, and as promised in my previous note today, I'm delivering the usual Friday video.

Today's offering will be highly impactful. The wonderful Mike Dooley, creator of Notes From The Universe, is being interviewed in three parts by Lara Berman from USC. This is an ideal opportunity to discover the magic that is Mike Dooley.

Mike's daily reminders of how truly magnificent you are sets a positive note for hundreds of thousands of people. The proof of the pudding is in the trying. When you've spent 20 minutes getting to know this great contributor, you'll want to hear from him every day. I promise.

Have fun with him.

Notes From The Universe

Make this weekend something amazing.

See you on Monday.

Take care.

~peter~

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Thursday, February 5, 2009

How to Let Go of What You Don´t Want and Create What You Do Want!

A note from peter@thewealthyattitude.com for Friday February 6 2009

Hello there folks and welcome to the end of "Procrastination Week"

Firstly, you are familiar with getting a video offering on Friday, and you certainly will get that later today. I wanted to end the week the way we started.

My deepest thanks and congratulations go to our friend Jan Janzen for her amazing contribution this week. She went above and beyond with her five great readers.

As I mentioned yesterday, if you are part of a team you'll want to make sure you get Jan's offerings into their hands.

Also, now's the ideal time to take an opportunity to get Jan's books into your business library, and get on her mailing lists. You'll be very happy you did. You can get Jan's stuff here:

We wrap up Procrastination Week on a very powerful note.

How to Let Go of What You Don´t Want and Create What You Do Want!

by Jan Janzen

The last reason we are going to cover this week is that your affirmations do not resonate with you. What do I mean by that? Let´s say you are affirming wealth by saying something like, “I am wealthy”, “I have a million dollars in the bank” or “I deserve to have an abundance of money in my life”. What happens then? Every file in the subconscious mind will come forward to either support or reject that comment. So if you have a dominant file around deserving that is not positive, you will notice some resistance in the pit of your stomach when you say that affirmation. It´s like you can hear the voice say, “you don´t deserve a million dollars. Who do you think you are?”

If you want to use affirmations as part of your personal development journey, you need to create affirmations that resonate with you at a cellular level. So how can you do this with an affirmation? If saying, “I am wealthy” brings up a feeling of resistance or you notice negative thoughts popping into your head immediately, then that affirmation is dredging up the conflicting files. Not what you want. No wonder you won´t get what you want! You´re actually affirming the negative or the opposite.

You are looking for an affirmation that feels good to you at a deep soul level. For example, you may say, “I have a million dollars in the bank”, and then immediately hear the voice, “no you don´t” and have the emotion of hypocrisy, doubt or overwhelm sweep over you. Not a very positive charge. But if you say, “I am working on creating a million dollars”, then there may be little to no resistance.

An affirmation is simply a thought expressed either internally or verbally. Whether or not you think you “do affirmations” or not, you are constantly affirming what you are getting in your life just by being alive, thinking and speaking. So you can´t avoid the creation process even if you think you can. You are constantly creating – you just may not be creating what you want.

To let go of beliefs that don´t work, I was given this very easy process. But it comes with a warning. It only works if you use it. So if you are serious about having an amazing life, then know right now this is going to take some effort. However, it is well worth it. I know that personally. I went from homeless, almost bankrupt and lonely to living in Mexico in a beautiful condo, having an amazing career and spending my life with a wonderful partner. It didn´t take me decades to clear the negative programs out of my life although I was brainwashed in negative thinking for the first 38 years of my life. Although there was lots of deprogramming I needed to do, it took me a few short years. So know you can do, be or have what you want. You really can.

To release those negative programs, practice this daily: “I release at a DNA and cellular level the belief that”….and state your belief. Let it flow as it comes out of your mouth. It may be brief or you may find yourself having quite the dump of negative programming. When you feel complete, then say, “I KNOW in every cell of my body that I am”…and state what you know at some level to be the truth for you. I know this sounds silly but in the words of my earliest mentor, T. Harv Eker, you can either be right or you can be rich. So you can either feel silly or you can create an amazing life.

People pay me a lot of money to do this practice with them and then refer their friends to do the same thing with them…so it works. Yes, I can go deeper than you may be able to do at first but this works, plain and simple. I have healed people physically, emotionally, mentally and financially using this simple process. You need to clear out the programs that aren´t working and you need to affirm the ones that you want to be prominent.

Can you really create the life you want? Absolutely! But you may be procrastinating about your New Years Resolution because:

1. You aren´t really passionate about what you said you wanted.
2. You are afraid of getting what you really want.

By going through what I have suggested for you this week, you will have incredible clarity about why you have forgotten about your dreams, buried them in the back of the closet and decided to put up with mediocrity in some area of your life again!

I take the quality of my life very seriously and I suggest you do too. Put some effort into clearing the old negative files and reinforcing the positive ones that will help you manifest what you want. And if that feels like too much work, then that is the first program you need to get rid of. Creating an amazing life is much less work than struggling with a rotten one, being in a toxic relationship, dealing with health issues and being broke. Follow the directions I´ve given you this week. Do whatever it takes. Go ahead and create what you really want for your life. You´ll be very, very glad you did!

Jan is a “classic” entrepreneur, coach, healer and author of two books including her latest release, Getting off the Merry-Go-Round - How to Create the Life You Want Without the Fear, Doubt and Guilt. You can order her book here: www.nomorefeardoubtandguilt.com


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Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Conflicting Files Create Procrastination

A note from peter@thewealthyattitude.com for Thursday February 5 2009

Good day there all and welcome to Thursday.

I have to say that I'm pleased as punch with the series that Jan has developed. For all of you "team leaders" who take your leadership seriously, you should be making sure that you get this information in everyone's hands as soon as you can. It'll help everyone get their goals and intentions for the year right on track.

So let's get right into Day 4 of "Procrastination Week".

Conflicting Files Create Procrastination
by Jan Janzen

You´re feeling safe about your goals. You´re talking about them with passion. You´ve got clarity. But it´s still not working for you. What else is stopping you? Another reason you may have procrastinated about your New Years Resolutions is because there are conflicting files in the subconscious mind that are sabotaging you. What exactly does that mean?

In working with hundreds of clients, I discovered that many people assume that the subconscious files have been neatly sorted out like California Closet has been through them. Red shoes are with the red outfits, ties are all color coded and sweaters are perfectly folded. Let me tell you, your subconscious mind looks more like dog food that has been through a blender and now you need to find three grains of rice! So know you are more complicated than you thought. However, you can sort through this and get what you want.

What do I mean by conflicting files? For example, you may have the file that wealth is a good thing that you very much desire. There may also be a file that wealthy people are ostentatious and pompous. Terms like “rich bitch”, “filthy lucre” or “dirty money” may be phrases you regularly use. Perhaps you remember yourself thinking “who does he think he is” as you see someone in an expensive car cut you off on the highway or take up two parking stalls at a crowded parking lot. You may feel resentment that just because the driver has money, he is obnoxious in his behavior. Do you see the conflict? You want money. However, that´s a little file that hasn´t been given any juice or charge. It´s just sitting there minding it´s own business. Then you have the file about money and obnoxiousness. That file brings up the emotions of resentment, anger and fear. There are a truckload of emotions, beliefs and programs attached to each one of those. Just around the emotion of fear, there may be the belief that you can´t be obnoxious, disliked or resented because it´s not safe when you aren´t liked.

Are you starting to see how one positive belief or file can be cancelled out by the emotions, beliefs and files of a conflicting belief? It´s quite fascinating how our subconscious mind really works and to understand why you aren´t getting what you want in your life.

What if you want to be in a relationship and one of your goals was to meet the love of your life in 2009? There are undoubtedly files around love, romance and sex, marriage and companionship that are positive. However, if you were sexually abused as a child, made to feel stupid by your parent of the opposite sex or betrayed by a partner that cheated on you, those files will have a charge that is right off the Richter scale. Remember, you need to feel safe and any one of those events or something equally as devastating in your life will send up red flags and wipe out any little charge that wanting to be in relationship has created.

Imagine that the New Years Resolution that you want to manifest is like a little fish in the ocean. It´s getting some strength but it is obviously not a big fish (or the predominant file in your subconscious mind) because otherwise you would have what you wanted already. So along comes the big fish that has had years to grow and get strong and literally swallows up that little fish that is your New Years Resolution. Many of the programs that will conflict with your goals for the year will have come from childhood and will have had years to be fed by supporting emotions and circumstances that will have strengthened the belief. That little fish doesn´t have a chance of surviving unless you take some specific action to help it grow and become the big fish.

How can you know the conflicting beliefs that are stopping you? It´s impossible to know them all but all you need is to have the heavier charge weighted on what you want. You can do this two ways.

1. Get clear on what you want, give it plenty of emotion and be sure it feels safe for you to have it.

2. Realize that if you aren´t manifesting your goal, you have beliefs that are counteracting it so start to observe your thoughts and words and start to let those beliefs go.

I´ll show you an easy way to let those beliefs go tomorrow. But start today by being aware of the conflicting files in your subconscious mind as you listen to yourself think and speak. Know you can manifest your New Years Resolutions but they will need to feel safe, have lots of emotion around them, be very clear and be the predominant file in your subconscious mind.

Jan is a “classic” entrepreneur, coach, healer and author of two books including her latest release, Getting off the Merry-Go-Round - How to Create the Life You Want Without the Fear, Doubt and Guilt. You can order her book here: www.nomorefeardoubtandguilt.com

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Tuesday, February 3, 2009

What Are You Ordering in the Restaurant of Life

A note from peter@thewealthyattitude.com for Wednesday February 4 2009

Good day there all and welcome to the midweek point.

I know you join me in thanking Jan Janzen for her offerings this "Procrastination Week".

Jan really has set a new precedent here with her generous involvement. When you look at the statistics of how many of us have dropped our resolutions and intentions for the new year before Valentine's Day, it is refreshing to have someone compel us to re-visit our goals.. Jan's contribution certainly does that.

A few subscribers chatted with me personally yesterday about what they were learning from Jan's "readers". What they had in common was that they all wanted to share what they read with their friends. So, in response, we've now added a "Tell a Friend" button on the blog where you can now easily share the message with folks you'd like to receive it. Now that's convenient.

So, let's get to Jan's midweek offering.

What Are You Ordering in the Restaurant of Life
by Jan Janzen

How many times have you sat in a restaurant and stared at the menu? You go over it again and again but you just can´t decide what you want to order. You finally decide on the chicken pasta salad but your companion orders steak and lobster. When the meals arrive, the boring chicken pasta salad lacks any pizazz beside the juicy steak and succulent lobster served with garlic butter. You now realize that you really wanted steak and lobster. You just didn't have the clarity to order it.

We do that all the time in life. You really want the first-class plane ticket to Bali and a month´s holiday at a fabulous spa. Instead you take a coach seat to Winnipeg and go visit cousins. You really want to buy the $250 dress at the boutique that makes you feel like a million dollars. Instead you go to the final clearance sale at the mall and pick one up for $39 that fits okay.

Clarity is critical. Many of us were trained from childhood to be vague about what we wanted because we were actually disciplined or punished when we got “too demanding”. It was considered fine to say that we were hungry but if we spelled out exactly what we felt like eating, Mom probably looked at you and yelled something about not being your servant or waiter! When you said that you wanted to be a nurse or a teacher, most parents didn't ask you to get clear about what that looked like for you. Did you want to be a nurse in intensive care or in obstetrics? Did you want to be a Science teacher at a high school or a kindergarten teacher? When we did get clarity, we were often told to not be “so picky, opinionated or demanding”.

Consequently, clarity when it comes to our New Years Resolutions is often lacking. It doesn't mean you need to know all the how-to's because you don´t. But it does mean you need to be clear about what you want as the end result.

Perhaps you made as a New Years Resolution the goal of eating healthier. What does healthier really mean? Some people think that drinking Diet Coke instead of regular Coke is healthier. Other people would take that to mean a completely organic diet and others would clarify that as meaning that they ate 5 servings of fruits and vegetables a day. Are your goals clear enough so that you will know when you have arrived at them?

A good question to ask yourself is: If someone else read my New Years Resolutions, would it be obvious to them what I wanted?

Let´s say that you want to be a millionaire by the time you are 50 years old. Does that mean that you will have $1,000,000 in the bank in cash, assets worth a million dollars or some combination of? Is that goal to be reached by your 50th birthday or in your 50th year?

Does any of this matter? I believe yes. I view the Universe like that restaurant. What would happen if you finally decided on the pork chops but five minutes later you told the waiter that you now really wanted the chicken salad because you know you should be eating healthier? But ten minutes later, you decide that you are only going to feel rich if you act like you´re rich and so you change your mind and order the steak and lobster. However, as it gets closer to the dish being served, you start to worry about how you are really going to pay for it and you quickly order a tuna fish sandwich instead.

What kind of bedlam would you have created in the kitchen of that restaurant? You would probably be asked to leave the restaurant without getting a meal. You´d have wasted a lot of time and energy and come out with nothing except an empty stomach. So now think about the Universe, our partner in co-creation. You start off by saying that you want to lose 25 pounds. But then as it gets harder to stick to the diet, you decide that maybe 10 will be good enough. Then you try on a pair of pants and oh my goodness, they don´t even slide over your hips, never mind being able to do up the zipper. You firmly decide that you really need to lose at least 20 pounds. A few weeks later, you get invited to a party and faced with all that delicious food, losing 15 pounds seems more realistic.

The Universe, your body, and your subconscious mind are now so confused by what you really want and what they need to do to get it for you, everybody throws in the towel and you forget about losing the weight because it just seems so hard to do. No kidding!

Do you see where you do this in your life? Stop it. It won´t get you what you want and it will get you a real messy life full of uncompleted goals and dreams. You can do better than that with some real clarity.

Jan is a “classic” entrepreneur, coach, healer and author of two books including her latest release, Getting off the Merry-Go-Round - How to Create the Life You Want Without the Fear, Doubt and Guilt. You can order her book here: www.nomorefeardoubtandguilt.com

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Monday, February 2, 2009

Why You Need to Get Emotional!

A note from peter@thewealthyattitude.com for Tuesday February 3 2009

Hello there folks and welcome to this fine Tuesday.

Let's get right into Day 2 of Procrastination Week.

You're going to like this!

Why You Need To Get Emotional!
by Jan Janzen

On a Richter scale of emotions, how emotional do you really get? It´s common to speak about emotions with words such as: “I was really upset, terribly angry, very depressed or deeply grieved”.

But what about being really excited, wildly exuberant or deeply contented? It is much more accepted in our society for us to talk about the negative emotions we are experiencing rather than the positive. But it is the positive emotions that fuel the files in the subconscious mind that you want to be the most prominent.

Let´s say that your New Years goal was to create a leveraged income of $10,000 per month. You wrote down something like: I create a leveraged income of $10,000 per month. How exciting is that? It´s not. There isn´t an emotion or a feeling linked to that statement. You may as well have said: “I will eat fish for dinner three times a week.” It´s very boring! There is no juice, no excitement, and no charge around a New Years Resolution that is boring.

On the other hand, if I wrote down: I create a leveraged income of $10,000 per month because I need that money so I can live in the Mexico for six months of the year. I can live in the sun and the warmth, be right on the ocean and wake up every day to the waves crashing on the beach in front of my condo. I´ll have a maid clean my home every week, I´ll have a weekly massage in house and I´ll eat at fine restaurants several times a week. I have the freedom both financially and time-wise to now learn how to boogie board, write the book I really want to write and spend time with the love of my life as we go for sunset walks along the beach, sip Margaritas from our deck and play cards laughing and playing together. I feel completely free, at peace, excited every morning that I wake up because I know that I have more than enough money to live the life I want.

How does that feel? That may not even be a goal for you but I bet there were some mental pictures that came up for you of a vacation you´ve had, a picture in a magazine you have seen, or a movie you´ve watched. You could “feel” this goal now at a cellular level. Big difference between just saying the one line statement and now describing with emotion what you are really looking for.

Think of your subconscious mind like a big filing cabinet with millions of files. If you keep on pulling out the same files time and time again, those files get worn, comfortable and you know exactly where they are in the filing cabinet. The files that your subconscious mind pulls consistently are the ones you constantly talk about or refer to.

So just think about the conversation around your New Years Resolutions. Have you even had one since January 1st? If you haven´t verbalized one thing about any of those goals, do you think they are a very prominent file? Nope! They will be one of the little files tucked away in the very back filing cabinet drawer, last file, never pulled out, long forgotten about.

The predominant files will be the ones you have had in the past which have produced exactly what you don´t want. Files such as: Who do you think you are? You can´t even produce $10,000 working income per month. You aren´t going to create a residual income of $10,000. You´re not that good at your job. You´re too lazy. You´re not smart enough, good enough, or hard-working enough to achieve what few people in the world achieve.

Those are the files that will go around and around in your head, producing exactly the same results you have always created and there will be no space for your New Years Resolutions to even get a foothold.

You need to get your goals charged up, juicy and exciting so they move from the last drawer, back of the file to right up front and prominent! You do that with emotion and by giving them airspace.

Think about a DJ who plays a new artist on the radio. If he only plays the song once, how famous would that artist become? Not very. But because he gives the song airplay constantly and consistently, people start to hear it over and over again; it grows on them and they start requesting it and buying it. The result? The artist becomes popular.

You need to do the same thing with your goals. Give them airplay. Talk about them. Share them. Be passionate about what you want. Visualize what life would be like when you have those goals. Pick up a travel magazine and read about the places you want to go to. Research what it would cost to live abroad. Talk to other authors if you want to write a book. Get those goals foremost in your life. Otherwise, of course they will die. There is no juice or charge to keep them alive.

Create a safe environment around your goals and now get excited about them. We´ll talk about the third issue tomorrow.

Jan is a “classic” entrepreneur, coach, healer and author of two books including her latest release, Getting off the Merry-Go-Round - How to Create the Life You Want Without the Fear, Doubt and Guilt. You can order her book here: www.nomorefeardoubtandguilt.com

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Sunday, February 1, 2009

The Importance of Feeling Safe!

A note from peter@thewealthyattitude.com for Monday February 2 2009

Good day there folks and welcome to the first week of February, and for us it's Procrastination Week.

No, it's not a celebration of "procrastination", but a series of offerings from our good friend Jan Janzen on the subjects that hold so many people back from experiencing a fully joyous life. Jan generously offered her substantial expertise with a collection written exclusively for the subscribers here at the "Daily Reader".

Definition of "Procrastination" - the act of procrastinating; putting off or delaying or defering an action to a later time.

So, have you done it, what has it cost you, what have you missed, what would your life be like if you hadn't done it? All very important questions, and what will undoubtedly be addressed this week in a way that only Jan Janzen can.

So Let's get right to: Procrastination Week Day 1.

The Importance of Feeling Safe
by Jan Janzen

Do New Year Resolutions seem a lifetime ago? If writing down your goals, pledging your commitment to prosperity, weight releasing, a new career or a better relationship has gone by the wayside, then know it may be considered “typical” and “normal”, but as a Wealthy Attitude Reader, it´s NOT where you want to be.

So what went wrong? Why for all your determination, commitment and desire did you fall off the straight and narrow? Here are a few reasons why.

1. What you set as goals does not feel “safe” as a subconscious level.
2. You are not “emotional” enough about what you want.
3. You lack clarity.
4. There are conflicting files in the subconscious mind that are sabotaging you.
5. Your affirmations do not resonate with you.


Safety is key to what I call “your team”. That team comprised of your body, soul, spirit, conscious mind and subconscious mind will only act if you feel safe. If you doubt this, then think about putting your hand on a hot stove, jumping off a cliff or walking in the dark alone. You feel uncomfortable, scared and there is tremendous resistance to doing it. You are going against what your team wants to do.

Safety is paramount and when you understand this one key point, everything in your life can change. Here´s an example:

Let´s say that one of your New Year Resolutions was to lose 25 pounds. You started on the diet, began to exercise and started to eat healthier. After what I just said, you would think that all of those things would feel safe! So what´s the problem?

What if you have a program running in your subconscious mind that fat is wealthy and skinny is poor? Is that possible? Absolutely! Think of all the images on television alone that have shown you poor people starving to death. It is not typical that wealthy people are starving. Therefore, the file in the subconscious mind will link wealth to fat and poverty to skinny. Which is safer? Wealth or poverty? It may be wealth in your case (not every case however) and you will not lose the weight because safety to you means that you need to be wealthy which means… you need to be fat.

You may have another program running that has you convinced at a cellular level that food will run out. I have worked with many clients that have a tremendous fear they are going to starve to death, go hungry or be a bag lady. Consequently, the safety mechanism is set to eating NOW while there is food because you just don´t know if there will be food tomorrow. Therefore you continue to eat while you can because that is what feels safe.

If you find yourself doing something you don´t want to do such as eating a fattening food, spending money you don´t have or avoiding a relationship you are really desiring, then ask yourself this question:

What is it about my action that makes me feel safe?

It could be that eating ice cream makes you feel safe because that´s what you were given as a reward for being “good”, (in other words “safe”) as a child. It may be that spending money makes you feel safe because you have a belief that wealth is dangerous, divides families and will make you different enough from your friends that you will lose your precious community. So you are actually looking for ways at a subconscious level to get rid of your money. It may be that you feel safe being out of relationship because you are protecting yourself from hurt or danger by not entering into another one.

We are not simple creatures. The files that are tucked away in the subconscious mind are plentiful and don´t always make sense. They can even be completely contradictory which really adds to the fun of figuring out how to get what we want in life.

Just knowing that you will always act first in conjunction with what feels safe to you will help you identify blocks, responses and reactions to ideas that are new or different. Being wealthy, slim, successful, prosperous or famous will be as elusive as a slippery eel if your team does not feel safe. Create a feeling of safety around anything you desire and you have a much greater chance of achieving it. But there´s more.

Tomorrow we will look at the next reason why your New Year´s Resolutions may have gone by the wayside.

Jan is a “classic” entrepreneur, coach, healer and author of two books including her latest release, Getting off the Merry-Go-Round - How to Create the Life You Want Without the Fear, Doubt and Guilt. You can order her book here: www.nomorefeardoubtandguilt.com

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